Chalk it up to Preference

So this past weekend, I began the process of preparing for the "little man" to show up. You see, we can't do the baby's room over yet because it's currently the office. The office needs to move downstairs into the family room (which is in the basement), and the play area in the family room needs to be moved into the 4th bedroom (also in the basement). So my friend and I repainted the family room (walls & ceilings), ripped up the carpet, and put down new tiles to brighten the room. Now that's done, I can move the office down and the play room can be made.
NOW.............here comes the hard part; painting the play room. I bought some multicolored interlocking foam blocks to cover the entire floor with (which Jenn and I agreed on), but she wants to paint one wall in the playroom with that "chalk board" paint that allows kids to write on the walls, and then have it be erased. I have a problem with this. It's not that I don't want the kids to have fun in there, but teaching them to write on the walls is not exactly what I think is a smart move. Allie will only be two years old in October and doesn't understand all the rules of the world yet. What's to say that she won't start writing on ALL of the walls? How can I yell at her if she can write on the walls in that one room? Or worse yet, how do you say to a two year old, "OK, you see this 5' x 8' section of wall next to the window? Well you can write on this section, but no where else? OK?" She'll nod and then proceed to write on the wall anywhere she wants anyway.
OK, babe.......................start beating me up now. I know I'm going to end up losing this argument anyway.
Jenn Said:
First of all we're talking about CHALK. It's not like she gonna be drawing with permanent magic marker on the walls. Second, where ELSE do chalk boards normally go? When you see a chalkboard in a school, where is it? It's on the wall!! Even if she gets a bit of chalk on the walls in the beginning when she's too young to know any better, is it a huge deal? It comes right off with water! IT'S CHALK!
I was already told that there was no way in HELL that we could put it on the big wall in the play room (even though that's the best place for it) because *GASP* "You can see it from the family room!" And OMG what would people think if they saw a wall with chalk on it in a play room.?!?!? I mean we must be savages allowing our children to act that way! *please read the RIDICULOUS sarcasm!*
Tell me, how is it different if we bought a piece of plywood and made a chalk board that hung on the wall instead? In fact, if that makes it easier for you to do, then fine. I know you say I'm too easy going and things like that don't bother me, but seriously, I don't even understand the reason for this debate. Think about this, we let her put stickers up on a part of her wall in her bedroom, right? And she didn't start putting stickers everywhere in the house, right? She knows that they go in that one spot. Plus we only buy those stickers that fall off eventually anyway. So, how is that different than chalk? I mean look how cute this looks?
Mike Said:
Stickers are never permanent anyway! That has nothing to do with this. Besides,what makes you think that she's not going to use pen on the walls?
I don't even know why I try to express my opinion, I'm going to get overruled anyway.
Jenn Said:
Stop saying that!!!! We don't do that, we discuss things and come up with a decision. If your totally against it and would rather buy a chalk board or an easel then we will. I just want to talk about it. See now your making me feel bad. I just really don't get the problem. As far as the stickers, it has to do with the fact that she has the ability to understand that certain things are done in certain places.
Stop saying that!!!! We don't do that, we discuss things and come up with a decision. If your totally against it and would rather buy a chalk board or an easel then we will. I just want to talk about it. See now your making me feel bad. I just really don't get the problem. As far as the stickers, it has to do with the fact that she has the ability to understand that certain things are done in certain places.
Mike Said:
I'd rather buy an easel. That's a fair compromise.
I'd rather buy an easel. That's a fair compromise.
Jenn Said:
How about we buy a piece of wood and some chalk board paint and make a chalkboard and hang it on the wall. The big wall! I think THAT is a fair compromise. Plus then we don't have to worry about the chair rail being in the way.
How about we buy a piece of wood and some chalk board paint and make a chalkboard and hang it on the wall. The big wall! I think THAT is a fair compromise. Plus then we don't have to worry about the chair rail being in the way.
Mike Said:
Why not just BUY a chalk board then?
Jenn Said:
Cause it's MUCH cheaper!
What do you guys think? Am I being crazy for wanting to paint the walls with chalkboard paint? Does he have a point? Or is he just being a pain in the ass?
Cause it's MUCH cheaper!
What do you guys think? Am I being crazy for wanting to paint the walls with chalkboard paint? Does he have a point? Or is he just being a pain in the ass?
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I'd like to take this opportunity to submit a public apology for any responsibility I may have for this "discussion".
Yikes. I hope Jenn will still talk to me after this, but I'm with Mike on this.
For example, I have some Blue's Clues books where you can write "clues" in with crayon and they wipe off. However, I am hesitant to get them out because I don't want my kid thinking he can write in ALL of his books with crayon. I'd probably use the same reasoning with walls, too.
YOU HAVE TO TEACH CHILDREN !! ALLIE MUST LEARN BOUNDARIES AND YOU CAN'T TEACH BOUNDARIES IF YOU KEEP EVERYTHING FROM HER !! SHE IS OLD ENOUGH AND SMART ENOUGH TO LEARN NOT TO WRITE ON EVERYTHING, THERE WILL BE MISTAKES BUT IF YOU KEEP IT ALL IN THE PLAY ROOM NOT TOO MUCH DAMAGE WILL BE DONE !!!
NEEDLESS TO SAY I'M WITH JENN !!
BESIDES HOW COOL IS A WHOLE WALL CHALKBOARD !
I'm definitely with Jenn. Allie already knows about boundaries. I put those large coloring sheets on the refrigerater for her to color with crayon & when she goes off the paper and on the refrigerator by accident or on purpose she definitely knows it. Allowing kids to make the right choices is what teaches them responsibility. I never child proofed the living room but she knows what is grandma's & what is Allie's . In the learning process some chalk will get on the other walls & will have to be cleaned up. That should be the worst of it as far as the learning process goes.
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Well, when I first read this i thought I would be siding with Mike. Then as I thought more about it (as in, would I let Ryan have a chalk wall?) I started turning...As kids we always had to "be quiet"..my dad didn't like noise! There were SO MANY things we couldn't do in the house. So, when I really think about it, a playroom is a playroom. Its supposed to be fun, and messy. The great thing about the chalk is that if she has too many "accidents" and doesn't get the idea of it just yet, all you have to do is take the chalk away for a few weeks then try again. Oh yeah...and not mind a black wall. I would also suggest not letting the chalk leave that room to reinforce the idea that chalk is for the playroom. We turned our formal living room into a playroom. It is a wreck 24/7 but Ryan loves it. Its the first thing people see when they come into our house but I don't care...if they are at our house they should like us for who we are. Parents of a toddler.
OK - sooooooo sorry Mike, but I have to go with Jenn on the chalk wall issue. Yes, this is the mother that made you neurotic about neatness talking. One of the things I love about Jenn is her creativity. I think it's a great idea and will encourage them to be creative, like Jenn is. Let's face it, she'sprobably going to write on any wall in the house whether or not there is a chalk wall in the room, so let them have a designated place to do it. (Yes, I did wash crayon, pencil, ink, etc. off the walls when you 3 were little.) Just like they learn not to touch certain things in the house, they can be taught to only write on the "chalk wall". I like the idea of making a separate board though - this way, it can be moved to any room - not just the "little man's room" and Allie can use it anywhere even if the baby is asleep. Just a suggestion (OMG I can't believe the mother in law is making suggestions), but maybe hanging a smaller, more portable one, in the laundry area so she can use it if you can't get access to the larger one in the new baby's room. It's not about walls at this point - it's all about memories and having a great childhood. OK - that's farther than I have ever voiced my opinion as a mother-in-law and the final decision is up to both of you. Mom.
I agree with Jenn.. at first i was siding with Mike, but I would SO let my son have a wall of chalk.. how cool! Its not like its a permanent marker wall.. Every day you could have new artwork on the wall.. and i think you should do it on the biggest wall too!
I'm with Mike. I think a chalkboard wall would be super cute and a lot of fun, but for when Allie is older. I don't think kids under say, 4 or 5, would understand that you can only write with chalk and only on this one wall.
Not only would I do a chalkboard wall, but I would also do a portion with that magnetic primer... that way you can stick up all their artwork without having to use tape or tacks.
And the only person to get Sharpie on our walls in the past 10 years is me. ;-)
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I think I've happened upon a discussion for which I can take no sides. However, my husband of 16 years has a very wise saying that I think applies to this...and all future discussions...."Do it right the first time...listen to your wife." ;) heehee.
Good luck with this decision and Happy Thursday!
Chalkboard paint is hard to paint over. :( I have some dot stickers on my kitchen wall that are "chalkboard" and you can write on them. Plus, they're removable.
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